Laughter IS the BEST medicine, Woosy Librarian and Porn

Isn't it neat how you think you know someone and then they go and do something completely unexpected and you have to re-evaluate all you knew about them and come up with new parameters? Isn't it even neater when it's someone you 've known for a LONG time? ....like your husband... lol. So that's what I'm getting to...Foy did something completely and utterly unexpected...in the bedroom...in the bed...to me. I mean, don't get me wrong. We've had a ...wide variety by most standards in the bedroom throughout our married life but then in one night...he just blows my mind. I mean, I'm still reeling and it's noon the next day. He completely rocked my world. I think it all started when I laughed at him. I know, I know..I can be a cruel bitch...but it was funny. He was having problems finding "the hole". I know that sounds crude but really how else can you put it and really that's no dis on him because lots of men have trouble finding it..almost all of them really. I mean it's not blatantly obviously there like they are anatomically THERE. It kinda has to be yours to get right to the spot and right to the point. Anyways, I laughed and things got wild. I think he was just trying to show me who was the boss. No f-ing laughing at him in the bedroom. He'd show me. Well, he showed me. I plan to laugh more often.... :0).

I've tried to decide who I am in the bedroom. Sometimes I think I like to be IN CONTROL and other times I think I like a man who knows what's his, what he wants and TAKES it. I don't necessarily think that who you are in life makes what you are in bed. Sometimes it's opposite. I've seen that happen. It's always the kick ass powerhouse business woman who wants to be spanked like a bad girl when she gets in bed and the whoosy librarian who likes to tie you up and make you her bitch. Maybe this isn't so...come to think of it...maybe I've just watched too much porn. Great.
I think mostly I like a man who knows what he wants and takes it. But if I have to dominate then so be it. I can do that too. Well, enough for one day.